Prof Dr Karthikeyan Ramalingam

Prof Dr Karthikeyan Ramalingam
My passion for dentistry & oral pathology is unified like my soul bound to the omnipotent creator
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Saturday, July 5, 2025

Mumukshutva - Intense Longing for Liberation

Mumukshutva - the intense longing for liberation - is beautiful because it's both the fuel for the spiritual journey and a practice you can cultivate. 
 
It is a Sanskrit term that means “intense desire for liberation” (moksha). It is one of the four essential qualifications (Sadhana Chatushtaya) for a spiritual seeker, especially in Advaita VedantaMumukshutva is the deep, burning aspiration to be free from the cycle of birth and death (samsara) and attain self-realization — the direct experience of one’s true nature as Brahman (pure consciousness).

“Mokṣo me bhūyat iti icchā mumukṣutvam.”
– The desire: “Let me attain liberation” is mumukshutva.

 


Here's how to develop and deepen it:
 
Understanding What You're Longing For
First, get clear on what liberation actually means to you. It's not escaping life, but recognizing your true nature - the peace, freedom, and wholeness that's already here beneath all the mental noise and identity-seeking.

"Neti, Neti" (Not this, Not this): 
You are not your body, thoughts, emotions, or roles. 
You are the awareness that observes all these.

Start each day asking: 
Who is the one who is thinking these thoughts? 
Who is aware of these feelings? 
You're the observer, not the observed.
 
Daily Practices to Cultivate Mumukshutva
Morning Intention Setting:
  • Upon waking, before checking your phone or getting busy, ask: "What do I really want today?" Let yourself feel the deeper longing beneath surface desires.
  • Set an intention: "May I recognize my true nature today."
     
     
Evening Reflection:
  • Before sleep, contemplate: "What brought me closest to peace today? What pulled me away from it?"
  • Notice how pursuing temporary pleasures or avoiding discomfort creates suffering.
"Enough!" Moments:
  • When you catch yourself in repetitive mental patterns, drama, or seeking validation, pause and say internally: "Enough of this! I want to be free."
  • Use frustration with mental suffering as fuel for spiritual aspiration.
     
     
Deepening the Longing
Study Stories of Liberation:
  • Read about sages who found freedom. Let their peace inspire your own longing.
  • Notice how they describe the relief of no longer being trapped by thoughts and identities.
     
     
Contemplate Impermanence:
  • Observe how everything changes - thoughts, feelings, circumstances, relationships.
  • Ask: "What in me doesn't change? What remains constant through all experience?"
Feel the Cost of Unconsciousness:
  • Notice how much energy you spend on worry, comparison, seeking approval, or defending positions.
  • Let the exhaustion of this fuel your desire for the simplicity of just being.
     
     
The key is making liberation feel more compelling than the familiar patterns of seeking happiness in temporary things. When that longing becomes stronger than your attachment to the drama of the separate self, you're naturally drawn into deeper practice.

Friday, March 28, 2025

Happiness

Paradoxically, happiness is easier if you don’t want too much. Ask the happiest people in the world, what their secret is and they’ll tell you this: lower your expectations and be content with what you have. 

Research shows that lowering your sights and focusing on the little things can offer a more achievable sense of meaning.

A psychologically rich life is one filled with diverse, unusual, and interesting experiences that change your perspective; a life with twists and turns; a dramatic, eventful life instead of a simple and straightforward one; a life with multiplicity and complexity; a life with stops, detours and turning points; a life that feels like a long, winding hike rather than many laps of the same racing circuit. 

Embracing the pursuit of psychological richness can make us less prone to regret: it matters less if the thing you did went wrong. You did it regardless and chalked up another experience. “The purpose of life, after all, is to live it, to taste experience to the utmost, to reach out eagerly and without fear”.

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“Where your fear is, there is your task.” The smarter we think we are, the more cunningly our fears work in the background. 

Fear often hides behind intellectualized emotions, a false sense of urgency, hyper-controlling, or constant posturing and perfectionism. Or, on the other side of the behavioral spectrum, being overly accommodating, excessively humble, or too nice for our own good or anyone else’s. 

If you haven’t spent time identifying what makes you feel vulnerable, your decisions will be governed by avoiding it. Be led by your values, not your emotions. When your values are clear, courage becomes easier.

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What if I realized that I exist within everything around me? I would rejoice when my friend secures the top rank, for her success would be my own. I would celebrate my neighbor’s lottery win, knowing that a part of me is thriving. 

I would embrace every situation with joy—even in loss—understanding that while one part of me departs, another is born elsewhere.

With this perspective, as an Atmajñāni—one who recognizes himself as the Ātman—Shankaracharya attains Sama-dṛiṣṭi, the vision of oneness. 

He perceives all as equal, recognizing that the same Brahman radiates through every soul. By identifying with the Ātman, he transcends hatred, passion, greed, attachment, pride, and jealousy.

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